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Have we created a world we don’t want to live in?  Henri Nouwen wrote a lot about this, about how we must say no to death.  I don’t mean “death” as in the act of dying.  Nobody can say no to that form of death.  I mean things, actions that are anti-life, that go against the truth that we are all alive right now (as my friend Sam so wisely said) sharing an experience. Saying no to death has to start earlier than just saying no to violence or war.  We have to say no to all of the sometimes seemingly small precursors to death as well.  If we aren’t actively seeking peace, then we are actively participating in the forces of death and hate.  We also have to acknowledge that we are most comfortable when we are living with the evil that we say we want to resist.

We must share life.  It’s our responsibility to each other.  To be alive is to face the unknown over and over again.  We have to give up the arrogant and futile idea (power) that we can plan our future.  It’s hilarious to think that we are still surprised when things don’t work out.  To some people that uncertainty is so scary that they will build up their existence with the materials of death (isolation, fear, judgement, hate) instead of the more volatile elements of true life (love, empathy, humility, weakness).  We can trick ourselves into thinking that it’s better to be living a delightless life (but one that is stable, even if we tell ourselves we are happy) than to pursue a life that we truly want (but that may not ever work out or may be more difficult).  It’s a fake sense of control.  

The fear of failure can be so strong and convincing that we won’t even try to succeed.  Why participate?  It’s easier to distract ourselves with simple satisfactions (work, money).  Do not be afraid.  Move from fear to love.  From fear to freedom.  We are creatures of failure.  Failure is a gift.  We teach this to our children, but often forget to remind ourselves as adults.  Weakness is an opportunity, a chance to say, “How can I grow?  How can I change and develop?  How can I seek more of what this life experience has?”  It is so much easier to just say, “well, that’s how I am…this is who I am” than to try and change and grow who you are.  I get frustrated with the idea of an afterlife.  Sometimes I feel like the idea (and to some people the truth) that there is something after this one (!) life gets in the way of this kind of growth and celebration.  A belief that something else awaits us after death can make us more likely to be comfortable with the evils we were talking about earlier and less likely to dedicate our energy to fighting those evils every single day.  If everyone acknowledged and accepted that they can die at any moment, and that an afterlife may not exist; and spent their time instead  affirming the beauty that is our experience…reinforcing the value of life for others…respecting others’ right to a joyful experience…

You can get a lot done in an average life expectancy.  

The things that lead us to death can actually be really attractive.  They make us feel strong, confident, smart, in control.  The things that lead us to life are a little more embarrassing.  They make us feel vulnerable, dependent, childlike.  They’re not showy.  It’s like a plant or a child growing.  You only notice when they have grown even though the growth was constant and happening right in front of your eyes.  I guess that’s the goal?  To live in such a way where our growth towards true life is unnoticeable.  So that those times where we fail and hurt someone for no reason other than helping ourselves aren’t big displays anymore; because maybe we’re working constantly on stopping those moments before they happen.  To live an ex-static life.  Turning away from those patterns that lead us back into those patterns of hurt.

It’s very easy to forget that everyone’s going through or has gone through something hard; that people are often more complex than we initially give them credit for.  Maybe we have everything in common.  

“Perhaps what this country needs is a great poem.  Something to lift people out of fear and selfishness.” -Herbert Hoover

Before you speak.  Before you make a sound.  Is it better than silence?

Doing nothing in solitude.  A useless presence.

Is this how we make passionate men?

a note about petra…

Imagine me listening to these recordings.  IV needle in the top of my hand.  Headphones blaring.  I always sit by the window.  It’s beautiful out.  Just a window away.  Outside.  Free.  Not in there.  Not with the needle.  But out in the woods with my dog, with the tree that I like, that makes such a calming sound when the wind blows, and its leaves sort of sparkle too.  That’s part of how this album was made.  It seems dramatic or maybe tragic, but it’s not.  Or more importantly, I don’t see it that way and I don’t intend for this music to be heard that way.  It’s just the truth of what was happening in my life while I was recording these songs. 

To begin to explain what PETRA is we have to go back a few years to when my wife and I moved back to Youngstown, Ohio, where I’m from.  It’s around this time that we got a dog.  A german shepherd.  My wife has wanted a dog more than anything since she was born.  (That’s a true statement, not an exaggeration or a cliche.)  She waited thirty years and finally came Petra, our dog.  She named her Petra because the name means “rock”.  We needed a rock.  We needed grounding.  We had just moved back home.  We didn’t have a place of our own.  We were sort of searching for whether or not this was even the right move.  Petra held us together.  Her need for routine and structure helped give us some focus too.  She got us outside everyday.  Out to the park, out in the woods. 

Also around that time I was recording my last album Reconciliation.  I recorded that album with my brother at Peppermint Productions in Youngstown.  Peppermint is a special place.  It was opened in 1971 by Gary Rhamy, who is still the owner and engineer.  (Gary is best known for his work mixing and engineering many Grammy nominated and Grammy winning polka records.)  That album was written and recorded in two parts; one before I knew I had cancer and one after.  I had some pretty intense back pain at the time which was being caused by Multiple Myeloma.  I immediately started treatment and also immediately wanted to finish the album.  There’s a part in the movie One More Time With Feeling, where Nick Cave says something about the “prophetic nature of songs”.  I didn’t have that language at the time, but it’s a really good way of putting how I felt about the music I was making.  The songs I wrote for Reconciliation weren’t originally about me.  They were partially about my dad finding out he had MS in his late 20’s.  That sudden shock and sudden change.  Now here I was in my late 20’s with this news; all of a sudden these songs were unfortunately about me as well.  

I went through treatment and eventually got things into complete remission.  This included a bone marrow transplant, which kept me in the hospital for two weeks.  During that time my wife would walk with Petra near the hospital building, to a place where she knew I could look out the window and see her walking.  Everyday I’d go downstairs and walk on a treadmill they had there to keep patients active.  My wife would walk in circles out front of the hospital so that it was like we were all on a walk together.  All I wanted after leaving the hospital was normal things.  To go to the park with my dog.  To go grocery shopping.  To just feel like nothing all that bad was wrong.

When I started recording this album, I felt that way.  I was in total remission, no signs of disease in my blood.  I recorded half the album this way.  But during that time things started to become active again.  I had to start a new treatment, which has been thankfully very effective, but it does involve frequent IV’s.  It’s a reminder that something is wrong.  And I hate that reminder.  At some point I wrote in my notebook: P-E-T-R-A, and made the acronym “Peace’s Eternal Truth Renews All”.  It really fit my life at the moment.  Here I was, experiencing this cycle of disease again while in the middle of making this album.  I was partially mad.  I wanted to just get back to my life of doing what I love to do without having some unfortunate event.  I understand that life is a cycle of highs and lows, but it seemed like they were both hitting at the same time for me, and it was tiring.  But what I was really looking for, really needing in all aspects of my life was peace.  

I can’t be mad at my body for what it’s doing.  It’s out of my control and I didn’t cause it.  I can hate the experience that it is putting me through (going to the doctor, getting treatment, being on medication…), but I also need to love that it’s an experience at all, and an experience that has, in a strange way taught me a lot.  It’s also an experience that is healing me, both physically and emotionally.  My priorities are different now.  One of the most important parts of my day is being outside with Petra.  Being silent in the woods, but still very much communicating with her and also being communicated to.  I know it sounds overly sentimental and corny, and I’m not trying to paint some unrealistic picture of myself as a guy who has solved all his fucked up problems by taking walks with his dog.  But I am a guy who is in active pursuit of peace, and I think that’s a really important thing.






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1. Transformed

2. All Things New

3. Purifier

4. Warning

5. Life Half Lived

6. When I Think Of You

7. Never Understand

8. Never Was Alone

9. Peace’s Eternal Truth Renews All

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THE BUILDING - Just For Once EP - 2018

1. Just For Once

2. Fine Without it

3. Have To Forgive (solo version)

4. Wish I'd Won

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THE BUILDING - Reconciliation - 2017

1. Taken Away

2. If I

3. Love, Fuck

4. Who’s Your Guardian

5. Have To Forgive

6. I Took Your Time

7. The Ballad Of Electric St.

8. Born Too Late

9. I’m Sorry - I’m Not Here